Icandothis 804 Posted January 19, 2020 Author Share Posted January 19, 2020 On 1/16/2020 at 4:13 PM, BooksandTrees said: I agree and I don't think you triggered anyone. Don't worry about that. I think this is a strong learning experience and it's just a time for you to move forward. This surgery wasn't "No big deal". If he's living with you and helping raise these kids then it's assumed that he's being mature and providing responsibly for you and the 3 kids. The miscommunication with his surgery is a bad issue because it puts you and the kids in jeopardy depending on how long he's out of commission. He might observe you being selfish by making that a priority instead of his health, but you've known about this for two years and you clearly were concerned about the health of him, but was he ever concerned about the financial stability of you and your kids? I don't think so. You're going to have to rely on your strength to get through this and when you don't have strength just remember the hope you have from the progress you've made the the future of you and your children. You're almost there. Soon enough you'll have your own housing situation and a place to watch your kids a little easier. You won't have to rely on someone who is clearly unreliable and emotionally and physically neglectful to you and your family. You're almost there and are doing an amazing job. Hold on and be proud. Be brave and be yourself. Thank you for your very beautiful comment. You always know exactly what to say when things get rough. It means so much... you being here. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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