Ikar 1923 Posted March 1, 2020 Author Share Posted March 1, 2020 On 2/29/2020 at 7:05 PM, ceponatia said: I think there's two things that go on there. One is that some people are just addicted to negativity and misery and no matter what happens they will be unhappy. Others are completely incapable of taking responsibility for the decisions they've made in life. I deal with the latter far more at my office. Like women who complain that their baby's father doesn't pay child support even though they've known all along that he has 6 children with other women that he's never paid for. Why would this time be different? lol. I think these two types might oddly morph together actually. In a way, it doesn't matter if you are addicted consciously or unconsciously to do poor decisions that hurt you, because they still yield the same result if left alone. Gonna write more about it below. On 2/29/2020 at 7:05 PM, ceponatia said: "...wear a giant sign saying 'I'm an idiot..." that's funny because it's what I always say about people who complain about their spouse. It's like advertising that you're a moron who makes horrible decisions. Lol. 100%. They should be literally the first person to turn to, outside yourself, in case you think something's wrong. I think the idea there is that if your spouse has a problem, then you also have a problem, even if you aren't first in line to deal with it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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