Hey, I'm gonna be controversial, but keep that in mind. The fact that we love ourselves, is the most natural fact about very human being. Even if you are hurting yourself, you're doing it for yourself. Even if somebody commits a suicide he's doing it because HE needs the attention, because he love himself. Some with taking care about our bodies, it's just a normal thing. We are born as selfish beings. And the goal should be to care more about other people. That should help you. Btw. about porn: Have you think that relationship that occurs in these movies is something every man desire? Do you thing that this is the ideal relationship between man and woman? Is it something you desire in your own relationship? Just think about it. Greetings, Mad Pharmacist.