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Day 49

Days w/o gaming: 49

Day satisfactory level: 4/10 

Short journal as im tired af. 

Making excuses, looking to squash them. Haven't given up yet, it's good to see the number grow.

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Jason

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Hello all, I'm Jason!    If you did not read my story, basically I was back and forth. I played until my Junior year of high school until I realized how addicted I was. Then I quit, and it felt

This is fantastic advice. 

Day 1 I'm back, I played games ever since the 20th. I am starting this detox again, I noticed that when I play games I get instant brain fog, irritation and I lose a bunch of energy. The las

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Day 50

Days w/o gaming: 50

Day satisfactory level: 6/10 

Action beats anything, time i put more energy towards my actions instead of what i'm feeling

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Day 51

Days w/o gaming: 51

Day satisfactory level: 7/10 

Got a lot done today, felt like I am getting back on the productivity curve. That's not a reason to stop fighting though 

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Jason

 

P.S. Sorry I haven't been responding to many journals, just been really busy. Will try tomorrow.

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Day 52

Days w/o gaming: 52

Day satisfactory level: 4/10

 

Fell into impulses, still fighting, i only fail once I give up. To help with responding to more journals I will write my journals earlier.

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Jason

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Day 53

Days w/o gaming: 53

Day satisfactory level: 6/10

Still trying to put action over mindset. Tired living a mediocre life. I will keep fighting, here's to tomorrow. 
 

In terms of gaming, had some urges but persevered 

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Day 55

Days w/o gaming: 55

Day satisfactory level: 7/10

Today I got nothing done, it was just a bunch of movies. It was enjoyable though. I want to be more oriented towards my goal. Trying a new routine tomorrow, with new hobbies. Maybe that will help. I'm glad to see the number of gaming keep rising. 
 

Its on me, to accomplish the things that need to get done. No one will do it for me.

Hope you had a good day

Jason

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Day 56

Days w/o gaming: 56

Day satisfactory level: 5.5/10

 

Not a good day, not a bad day. I implemented yoga for the first time and enjoyed it. I'm going to incorporate this into my schedule for a few weeks then get back into older hobbies.

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Jason

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Day 57

Days w/o gaming: 57

Day satisfactory level: 6/10

Mediocre day, but excited for the second half. I also thought of something about me pushing off my dreams. It might be the trauma I have from being brutally bullied as a kid. I was never one of the popular ones, i was seen as weird honestly because I liked comics and games instead of playing football and baseball. The result of the bullying, (this was before my addiction went out of hand) caused me to be introverted, more than I already was and believe that if someone was commenting on something I did it would always be negative criticism instead of constructive. I know the two types exist but I think that thinking carried to today. It also might be that I'm afraid of facing myself and understand that I will be shitty at something when I do it for the first time. 
 

In order to get over this, I'm going to turn to you guys and submit one part of my book bi monthly. This will give me time to work on it and make edits as well as getting over the criticism (self and from others bit)

Have a good day

Jason

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Day 57

Days w/o gaming: 57

Day satisfactory level: 6/10

Mediocre day, but excited for the second half. I also thought of something about me pushing off my dreams. It might be the trauma I have from being brutally bullied as a kid. I was never one of the popular ones, i was seen as weird honestly because I liked comics and games instead of playing football and baseball. The result of the bullying, (this was before my addiction went out of hand) caused me to be introverted, more than I already was and believe that if someone was commenting on something I did it would always be negative criticism instead of constructive. I know the two types exist but I think that thinking carried to today. It also might be that I'm afraid of facing myself and understand that I will be shitty at something when I do it for the first time. 
 

In order to get over this, I'm going to turn to you guys and submit one part of my book bi monthly. This will give me time to work on it and make edits as well as getting over the criticism (self and from others bit)

Have a good day

Jason

Sorry to hear about the bullying. Of course you didn’t deserve it and it wasn’t your fault, but sometimes people just suck and who knows what insecurities they have such that they need to project it onto someone else.
I’m really excited to read your book! That’s awesome and really cool you’re writing one. 

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Day 58

Days w/o gaming: 58

Day satisfactory level: 8/10

Better day because I worked on my story. Watched a Ted Talk on it, and I learned my goals were too vague. Going to rewrite them tomorrow. Goal for tomorrow is to write at least 3 rough draft pages. 
 

@Theresa thanks, the bullying was pretty much only during elementary school, so not a long time. This isn't a good thing but most people get bullied i think  so in a way it was a normal circumstance that most people deal with.

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Day 59

Days w/o gaming: 59

Day satisfactory level: 7.5/10

This is my second day of actually writing and working towards my dream of being a published writer. Not sure when I'll know when I gained that dream. You could say "oh when you see your book on the shelf, duh." Something the video I watched yesterday taught me was that your book may be published but you can't control whether it will be well received or if stores will stock it. I guess I feel like I achieved it when I am satisfied with what I've done. It's only been two days but I realized how silly it was of me to be scared of working towards my goals. One, its something I enjoy and two, it just feels fulfilling. Way better than playing a game. I decided today do one page a day to start then work up to more. Since I have been pushing it off for so long, it's not right for me to jump in and finish an entire chapter by the end of the month. That's unrealistic. Also it will give me a chance to finish a page then check back and edit. 

Hope you have a great day

Jason

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Day 60

Days w/o gaming: 60

Day satisfactory level: 4/10

Was not so good today because I got sick. It's not COVID but it's related to it. I just got my second dose of the vaccine yesterday and today I felt really shitty, so decided to go easy on myself. Only reason I thought it was bad because I am still hard on myself for being lazy and not being productive constantly even though we can't do that. Going to try to release pressure on myself for that and just be kinder to myself when i fail or i don't live up to some expectations.

I'm really happy I hit 2 months of no games. Without this community I wouldn't have even lasted a day! Only 30 days left!

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Day 63

Days w/o gaming: 63

Day satisfactory level: 9/10

Was productive today. Finished college work efficiently, finished up my laundry, i read and wrote a bit of my book, i drew. It was a really satisfying and great day. Only thing i didn't get to was photography but it's fine for how well this day went.

Lets hope tomorrow goes well too 

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Jason

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