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Day 13 11:10am

Daily: 

Workout: 39 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7.5/10 

Hygiene: 7.9/10

Mindful: 3.4/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 

Journal: 

Posture: 3.7/10

Sleep: N/A

wake: N/A

 

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing:  0

Mindless News Reading: 0 

Porn watching: 0

 

Thoughts/Feelings: 

Still working on my "daily" and "to quit" goals. Good luck everyone! 

You're doing great!

It's much better to browse internet for 5 minutes a day than 5 hours, right?

Yeah, so much more free time. Thanks. 

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How can we help :)

 

The forum and the Respawn program was super helpful. Removing damaging habits such as playing video games and adding worthwhile habits have increased my productivity and quality of life. Plus, I found that my average sleep time has decreased and I am feeling more motivated and awake during the day. 

 

Day 14 

Daily: 

Workout: 5 minutes

Healthy Eating: 6.6/10 

Hygiene: 8/10

Mindful: 3/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 0

Journal: 

Posture: 3/10

Sleep: 11:00pm

wake: 8:30am

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: Chocolate bar? 

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing:

Mindless News Reading: 1 minutes

Porn watching: 0

 

Day 15

Daily: 

Workout: 

Healthy Eating: 6.6/10 

Hygiene: 8/10

Mindful: 3/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 0

Journal: 

Posture: 3.1/10

Sleep: 10:50pm

wake: 6:45am

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 0

Mindless News Reading: 2 minutes

Porn watching: 0

Day 16 10:07am

Daily: 

Workout: 50 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7.4/10 

Hygiene: 7.1/10

Mindful: 2.7/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 0

Journal: 

Posture: 3/10

Sleep: 10:15pm

wake: 7:13am

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 3 minute

Mindless News Reading: 1 minute

Porn watching: 0

 

Thoughts/Feelings:

 

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Day 17 8:19pm

Daily: 

Workout: 50 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7/10 

Hygiene: 7/10

Mindful: 2.7/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 10 minutes

Journal: done

Posture: 3/10

Sleep: 10:15pm

wake: 7:15am

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 50minutes

Mindless News Reading: 1 hour 10 minutes

Porn watching: 0

 

Thoughts/Feelings:

Been quite productive in learning and work lately. Edit: Nvm internet browsing and mindless news reading 2 hours combined today. I am working on my application form registering to be a professional engineer and it looks like I will need to write about 10 000 words to adequately answer all the questions in the form. By far the longest writing that I will ever finish - this feels overwhelming but I just got to take it 1 bit at a time. 

Was learning Chinese since Sunday. At around 20 characters now. Goal is to learn a little bit of Chinese before bedtime every night. 

Started reading The Slight Edge today by Jeff Olson. Will comment about it when I finish the book. 

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I work for my dad and he let me take a few days off doing projects to register to become a professional engineer. I find this to be quite challenging because it is a lot of technical writing and the stakes are kinda high. Just powering through it now. My goal for today is to work hard and become very focused. Good luck everyone! 

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New daily: read and comment on 3 other journals or forum posts, but no more than 3. I have spent almost an hour browsing the forum today. 

Day 18 7:57pm

Daily: 

Workout: 53 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7/10 

Hygiene: 3/10

Mindful: 2.8/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 5 minutes

Journal: done

Posture: 3.1/10

Sleep: 9 am to 9pm, 12pm to 3pm 

wake: N/A

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 1 hour 10 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 10 min

Porn watching: 0

 

 

 

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good luck to you too!! haha no more than 3,  i agree, don't you lost track of time on here don't you xD. I really love the posture scale you keep posting, what a great idea why did i not think if that....Well done dude keep it up. It all adds up over time all of this or as Cam saids The slight edge baby!!

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Good job powering through. You've got this! Focus on how good it will feel when you're done :)

I will feel a sense of achievement if I can finish it with minimal procrastination and good focus. I KNOW I got this! 

good luck to you too!! haha no more than 3,  i agree, don't you lost track of time on here don't you xD. I really love the posture scale you keep posting, what a great idea why did i not think if that....Well done dude keep it up. It all adds up over time all of this or as Cam saids The slight edge baby!!

Thanks for the encouragement dullage! Good posture is very underrated. 

Edit: So I submitted a 2000 words answer to one of the 35 questions that I have to answer online to become a professional engineer, and I got the following error message: Answer needs to be a maximum 1200 characters. ಠ_ಠ

Moonshot Goal: I want to be able to jump to the basketball hoop and hang on it. I know that there are maybe 2 or 3 people my height that can "kinda dunk" a basketball, but they started training since they are a young age. I am 28 and I just started consistently weight training for a few months. I will probably physically peak in 5 years and I just don't see myself dunking a ball by then without something crazy like steroids lol.  

Long Term Goal:  I want to touch the rim in 5 years. I want to touch the net within 6 months. If I touch the net I will make a video of it :D so excited! 

Short Term Goal: zero internet browsing or other time wasting activities for the rest of the day. 

 

Day 19

Daily: 

Workout: 

Healthy Eating: 7.1/10 

Hygiene: 7.5/10

Mindful: 3.3/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 10 minutes

Journal: done

Posture: 3.4/10

Sleep: 11pm

wake: 9am

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 3/3

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 7 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 0

Porn watching: 0

 

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Love the new goals!

Thanks! 

This have been the longest time I've been off games since high school! I'm getting enormous value/dollar ratio from buying Respawn and I know many other people have benefited from this website and its programs. 

So here's my pledge for reaching my bigger goals: 

90 days game free: buy myself 30 minutes coaching from Cam 

180 days game free: buy someone else in this forum or website the respawn program or 30 minutes coaching with Cam 

touch the net of the basketball hoop (may take 6 - 12+ months of training): buy someone else in this forum or website the respawn program or 30 minutes coaching with Cam. 

Day 21 

(From now on I am counting the days from when I started quitting games rather than from when I first posted in the forum) 

Daily: 

Workout: 

Healthy Eating:7.7/10 

Hygiene: 7.8/10

Mindful: 3.3/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 10 minutes

Journal: 

Posture: 3.2/10

Sleep: N/A

wake: N/A

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 3/3

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 3hr 45 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 10 minutes

Porn watching: 0

 

 

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Love the new goals!

Thanks! 

This have been the longest time I've been off games since high school! I'm getting enormous value/dollar ratio from buying Respawn and I know many other people have benefited from this website and its programs. 

So here's my pledge for reaching my bigger goals: 

90 days game free: buy myself 30 minutes coaching from Cam 

180 days game free: buy someone else in this forum or website the respawn program or 30 minutes coaching with Cam 

touch the net of the basketball hoop (may take 6 - 12+ months of training): buy someone else in this forum or website the respawn program or 30 minutes coaching with Cam. 

This is awesome! I'm game. :D

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Day 22 (11:19am)

I really spend way too much time on the internet yesterday. It's still better than in the past, when I would waste the entire weekend. I think I just need to make a habit of starting work or study as soon as I get to the computer, and just keep engaging myself with that activity or other productive activities to keep myself from browsing the internet. Browsing the internet is like, literally 1 click away. I also need to work on my mindful/focus and guided meditation more consistently. 

I need to be more hard on myself. 

I was browsing the internet yesterday on guys in relationships watching porn. I didn't know it could be so damaging to relationships! On hindsight I'm pretty glad that my gf doesn't seem to mind and I made the decision to quit watching porn myself along with gaming. 

 

Daily: 

Workout: 

Healthy Eating:6.4/10 

Hygiene: 8/10

Mindful/focus: 3.3/10

Guided Meditation/Yoga: 10 minutes

Journal: 

Posture: 2.7/10

Sleep: 10:00pm

wake: 9am

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 2/3

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 0

Mindless News Reading: 0

Porn watching: 0

 

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I was browsing the internet yesterday on guys in relationships watching porn. I didn't know it could be so damaging to relationships! On hindsight I'm pretty glad that my gf doesn't seem to mind and I made the decision to quit watching porn myself along with gaming. 

It's the right decision! 

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Day 23

Daily: 

Workout: 

Healthy Eating: 5.3/10 

Hygiene: 8/10

Mindful/focus: 2.8/10

Yoga/sitting meditation: 6 minutes

Journal: 

Posture: 2.7/10

Sleep: 10:30pm

wake: 8:45am

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 2/3

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 0

Mindless News Reading: 0

Porn watching: 0

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Today is good. Nothing to write about so I'll write my gratefulness journal. I'm thankful for: 

-just bought ring online

-high productivity today 

-healthy eating 

-I live in Canada and is financially okay. IMO the 90 days detox is less challenging when you are financially okay

-24 days without games now! 

 

Day 24 

Daily: 

Workout: 65 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7.6/10 

Hygiene: 7/10

Mindful/focus: 3.2/10

Yoga/sitting meditation: 

Journal: done

Posture: 2.7/10

Sleep: 11pm

wake: 8:45am

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 4/3

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 5

Mindless News Reading: 3

Porn watching: 0

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Your daily and quit list is very sleek! Keep strong.

Greetings, Piotr.

Thanks. 

 

 

 

Lately I've been reading the Power of Habit and The Slight Edge. The Slight Edge motivates you to develop positive habits in multiple areas of life without setting you up for unrealistic expectation. I definitely recommend it to game quitters. 

For the next few days I will focus on building my meditation habit, posture, and focus. 

I will also replace the craving to browse the internet or news with writing on a journal. 

Stay strong guys!

 

Day 25 

Daily: 

Workout: 15 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7.5/10 

Hygiene: 5/10

Mindful/focus: 3.3/10

Yoga/sitting meditation: 10 minutes

Journal: done

Posture: 2.6/10

Sleep: N/A

wake: N/A

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 3/3

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 10 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 15 minutes

Porn watching: 0

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Happy to hear you're enjoying The Slight Edge! 

Thanks for the book recommendation! 

 

Dude, I'm reading the Slight Edge right now too, and I can say it's sooo profound.

In which aspects you're gonna use this philosophy?

Greetings, Mad Pharmacist.

Awesome! 

I like how he tells you to expect improvement after long periods of consistency, and to continue the positive habits even when you are seeing success. You can always reach more success if you just continue working on your daily habits. That's something that I never thought about and I completely agree. 

Many of the things I am already doing right now, and the book reinforces what I am doing

Some new things I'm implementing: 

1. act of kindness each day

2. meditate daily

3. journal for 2 minutes a day about one positive experience. 

I'm still reading the book. I will summarize and post the summary when I'm done.  

Day 26

Daily: 

Workout: 35 minutes

Healthy Eating: 7.8/10 

Hygiene: 6/10

Mindful/focus: 3.2/10

Yoga/sitting meditation: 1 minutes

Journal: done

Posture: 3/10

Sleep: N/A

wake: N/A

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 2/3

Act of kindness: done 

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 2 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 5 minutes

Porn watching: 0

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I really have a problem with thinking too much. It always takes me a while to fall asleep. Last night it took me 6 hours. There is almost always a story playing in my head and I have a hard time shutting down and relaxing. 

In the good news I am a lot more motivated and interested in doing day to day activities. And I have completed my preparations for proposing to my GF, which will happen later this september. 

Day 27

Daily: 

Workout: 

Healthy Eating: 7/10 

Hygiene: 5/10

Mindful/focus: 3/10

Yoga/sitting meditation: 3 minutes

Journal: 

Posture: 3/10

Sleep: 9pm

wake: 9:30am

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 0/3

Act of kindness: done 

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: green tea protein shake, lemon tea

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 70 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 1 minutes

Porn watching: 0

Day 28 8:19pm

Daily: 

Workout: 60 minutes

Healthy Eating: 6.410 

Hygiene: 6.5/10

Mindful/focus: 2.8/10

Yoga/sitting meditation: 4 minutes

Journal: done

Posture: 3/10

Sleep: N/A

wake: N/A

read/comment on maximum 3 other journals: 0/3

Act of kindness: done 

 

To Quit: 

Caffeine: 0

Gaming: 0

Internet Browsing: 2 minutes

Mindless News Reading: 15 minutes

Porn watching: 0

 

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Dude, I had the same problem two days ago - thinking too much for a long period of time.

The best way to deal with it is to schedule breaks during your mental type of work (I use at least 10 minutes of break after 50 minutes of work)

It's called "changing channels", so all you need to do during break is to switch type of energy you used.

If you've been working mentally, then do a bit of physical exercises or even dance a bit for these 10 minutes!

This will give you refresh in your mind and more energy to take actions!

For me it works, try it and tell me if it works for you too!

Greetings, Mad Pharmacist

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