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Only a quick post tonight. Today went well but didn't get done hardly anything I would have like too. They targets I wrote today I need to smash tomorrow. I did have a driving lesson today and within the lesson, I noticed that when I'm getting told what I'm doing wrong, I'm making mistakes and to be honest that is the only way I can learn. So making mistakes I need to establish that it isn't a bad thing and that its the most effective way to learn.

pSmashed today's jog. Okay I'm not waking up as early as i use to be by half an hour, and I'm not jogging as far, but I'm still doing it and every day I'm jogging further and further and trying to improve . Also today at worked I sold a load and my confidence soared through the roof. Selling a load, engaging with customer's more and being more confident. Tomorrow my goals are to comment on 3 people's pages in the forum, and establish more about finding work abroad.

Today what happened, well I researched a tonne into working abroad and what I need to do how to do it. I also stopped reading a book I had read half of due to the book being just not for me. So i stopped reading outliers and started reading a book on body language which so far I love and am already 50 pages in. I then went to one of mine and my brother mates who had a load of mates around and was extremely impressed how confident i was and how much I enjoyed being around people who I didn't really know. I love going to our mate matt's just as it reminds me of when i started my journey on improving my life all them years ago and it's nice to see how much I have changed. Tomorrow morning im up for a jog and tomorrow I'm going to smash. Wish me luck.

Watched and loved it. He's added to my watch list, Thanks mate.

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Smashed it today!! Woke up nice and early and I did it, finally. Half five wake up and I went on my morning jog and guess what..... it felt great. It completely changed my day and I had one of the best days I have had since I stopped. Coincidence?? I think not. Today, like I said, was a great day and was amazingly positive and being hard working at work really makes you feel better. Lately, I have been acting like I don't care to customers and today being the opposite really paid off and I received so much more from it. the feeling, the happiness, the compliments and so much more. Also, another reason that today went so well was I now know what I want to do with my life at the moment, and what journey I Should be aiming too. I want to travel the world, working in all different countries and spending my savings to have to time off in different countries. That is what I want to do with my life and this is what I am going to do. As Cam said the biggest and fastest way to self-growth is travel and leads to massive independence and confidence.

So tonight I had a amazing talk with Cam and how I managed to get of track this much. Cam asked me a amazing question today and that was, what were you worried about before you become Ill. We spoke about how i had a lot on my mind and was scarred about how I could fall back into doing nothing and return to not bothering with self help, which happened. Cam then made me see everything in a different light, what if the universe made me ill as a test to see how wrong i was and too teach me that yes i would always return to self help. Tomorrow morning I'm going to prove that I will knock down any barrier that gets put infront of me. Im waking up early in the morning and am going to continue jogging in the mornings. Tonight after i finish writing this I'm going to start meditating and continue it for 30 days without fail. Working abroad is were i want to head and i want to travel the world while working. Im going to look up Australia and look for jobs from there. I have a dream and I'm going to pursue it. Cheers cam for the talk tonight it really helped.

Meditation? what a great idea! im going to take your advice and stick in straight in to action! Thanks for the advice! Im feeling the need to acumplish another 30 day challange! maybe eat nothing but pre made lunches. I could save money while doing that aswell. Im still wanting to go jogging in the morning but just cant seem to get started! Also this week i have lived off no money basicly, which shows i dont need to spend all the money i do when i get paid. That is going to be my main focus next month. Money! Tomorrow goals: rewrite my list of goals.

So all booked in with Cam on Monday and I cant wait. I have started reading ten pages of a book a day and will continue to do so as well as post on here. I am trying at the moment to decide if I need a weekend off and if I should book a night In a hotel far away for some time to think about what I want and to get back on track. Also, I have recently been thinking of working abroad and this is once again another reason that I think I need a break, to have time think and decide what to do. I once listened to Tye Lopez say that he recommends having a weekend away every month and if that's true then I'm well overdue ahaha.

The lack of replies on here I have no excuses for and I am not happy with my self for letting me slide so far out. I took some time out due to me being ill and me telling myself I have not got enough energy to write in the group. This is madness! And feeding myself excuses is not helping anyway shape of form. Today I jumped in with overtime on my day off and took the time once I got home to plan work on my website. Work I done really well and one sale made the whole day worthwhile and with a message from the manager of the store I was input in the areas WhatsApp group on a massive sale i had done. So two things i need to improve on is I need to start jogging again in the mornings and i need to start posting in this group everyday no matter what!. That is where I am heading now.

Started reading outliers today and I'm already loving the book. Spent a load of time working on my youtube video but still after a load of work no were near to posting. I guess as I'm still new to youtube i have to expect days were i am just learning how to do and use bits of software. I had a two hour driving lesson swell today and spoke about moving my new test day forward, which we will be doing at some point. Learnt a load of new ways to touch up on pieces of my driving. Made a load of phone calls to people who i had be meaning to and arranged to meet up on Friday which will be great. Best of all Skype call planned with Cam!!! Tomorrow !!!

Today i finished reading the slight edge finally and wow was it the best book i have ever read. I am going start reading the book outliers next and ten pages night sounds good. Today at work i believe i was a bit lazy and spent a lot of time sitting down. I could have definitely have spent time cleaning and tidying. Definitely something that needs to be done. I also got my phone unlocked today and pick it up Thursday, which means my 30 day detox starts soon with no smartphone. Feel like i need a Skype call with Cam which ill have to sort out, and tomorrow i smash my youtube video.

Why that? I am not sure if neglecting bad things that happen to you is a good idea. Focusing on the positive things to get a positive mindset seems reasonable, but identifying why you feel bad and how you deal with bad things that happen to you is also important. Very true. To be honest guys i fill like i have lost track. Im still trying to get back on the path but struggling. Today i come home just sat there watching a movie with my cousins feeling sorry for myself and felling ill. Im still ill which isn't helping (excuse) but have lost a load of routines. I need to build them up again. As my sales trainer use to tell me, What will impress me more than how many sales you can get in a day and what records you broke is, when your backs against the wall what can you do. Tomorrow morning I'm going for a job and getting back on track and heading the way i was. Build them up asif they never went.

Added the Ten pages a day of a book to my daily routine yesterday so day 2. My next 30 day challenge as hard as its going to be working in a phone shop is going to be using a old slide up phone for a month, which means no internet for me just calls and texts. That will happen when i get my phone unlocked i have brought for this. Today I'm still on the path of getting back on track and its okay! I am on the success curve. I have felt a lot better today and managed to stay awake later tonight but the one thing i still have not managed today is sort running in the mornings. This is because i have been too ill but next week it needs to start again and i need to start waking up at 5. As long as that is done next week then mission complete. I also want to start dedicating my time on the right thing not just being productive, but once again next week that will be done. Well done for getting back on track Slowly but sorely

30 days coffee free, and smoking well I'm just finished with that, i believe i have been smoke free now for over 3 weeks and i know look at smokers and it makes me feel sick and i can't help but imagine some filthy taste in my mouth. What i learnt going a month without coffee So from drinking one coffee a day to none was hard but I know were i was heading and completed a month and wow it felt great. I did learn though that my diet relied on coffee to much as 2 weeks in i struggled to go to the loo, and a week later was in a huge amount of pain and spent a week in bed, doused up on all sorts of medicine. Anyway without going in to too much detail i learnt that i need to eat more fruit like prunes, apples and oranges and also limit my coffee but don't wipe it. Which is going to be hard as i think i have gone of the taste of coffee. Today i spent the day trying to get some stuff back on track. I took some notes for toastmasters but am finding it hard still being on the aftermath of bring ill. Why? Im ready for bed a 8. From now on i am only going to write positive posts on here, and only the good that happened in that day .

Yes very true! its not like i haven't done this before and the first time is the hardest right?

Hi Guys So a hole a week has gone by without me posting on the forum. And why, well heres my excuse, its because i have been ill and me being ill never happens. I have been in bed dragging myself to work the days i did go in and coming home and getting straight into bed. And wow this week i have been riding the unsuccessful curve hard. I stopped jogging and stopped waking up early honestly stopped everything and I didn't like one minute of it. I felt like i was wasting my time wasting every second and was turning back to the 99 percent of people who don't work on improving there life everyday. Last time Cam skyped me i explained to him how i was scarred that this would happen and how I'm worried that i would stop, and Cam just asked "if i did stop would i be stay one the down downwards spiral, or now that i have seen what life can be like would i jump back in after i have had my moment. The answer is I WOULD HAVE TO JUMP BACK IN. So now i have had mom moment stopped feeling sorry for myself and am ready to go.

First overtime session at a different store today and wow it was worth every minute. I got there early as usual and spent the time sorting out bits I had bean meaning to sort out over the phone. So well done me. Anyways I was very nice at work today and was giving out a number of sales to people who needed them. I then towards the end of the day served a custormer, and got talking to them and the daughter and found out we live across the road literally from each other. Anyway after work and getting home I saw the house they lived at and stopped, then began to thought of all the times I didn't get girls numbers and how i promised myself on the group I would not let them haooen again. Then how much it would shape me if I got the courage. So I knocked on the door and cut the long story short, was invited in for a drink the dad gave me a load of fishing stuff and got her Number. HAHAHA in your face self dought not this time. And on top of that top got a long extremely well with a stunning girl who normally I would be afraid to talk to and even had her turn round to me twice and tell me how much fun I am and how i made the day fly by. Mission accomplish. Ain't no me feeling sorry for myself today. Thank you Cam.

Getting home today and we had a knock on the door and my God one of the most amazing door to door sales man I have ever seen. Anyway I let him finish his pitch and expressed to him how good it believed he was at sales and asked him how much he gets paid for a sign up. He stated the price and I told him that I would sign up. We sat down and started filling out the details and I raised my donation 2 higher so he got paid more and lied about my age just to be able to do it. 43 year old me haha. Anyway he was very very interested in my history with door to door sales and he could not believe I missed it so much and he stated how I was one of the only people he has met who loved it. But when I pulled out my note pad to give him a list of books I wanted to recommend he was shocked how I carried a notepad and could not get his head around it. Anyway long story short I gave him 5 pounds to get a drink and ordered him the slight edge to read and got it delivered to his house for tomorrow. Now I'm giving to charity which will feel great and I have gave somone the tools to improve thete life. If it is taken or not is up to him. My macbook broke and on Skype with Cam he explained how I can't play victim to circumstances such as this. He taught me tonight that when I get annoyed or compare my self all I'm doing is playing victim and that's what the 99 perecent of people do who get no were in life. I will go into more death tomorrow about my call with Cam. Need to finish of notes. Great day and thanks to Cam learnt a lot.

Yesterday I noticed something, I noticed that I am a lot more comfortable engaging with people I have never met people. A thew months ago I would keep myself to myself and stay out of the lim light as much I could. Now days Im more likely to get my self out there. Yesterday While waiting for a bus one pulled up beside me and had a fault so it was not able to go. Now I must Amit I did stand there for a while deciding if to help or not but after ten or so minutes decided to offer my hand, and I eventually did. In the end the bus didnt get repaired and I didnt receive a thank you, when I finally jumped on the next bus that came along, but I was happy with that as it made me feel better. This morning im sitting here in a pub eating breakfast as im 2 hours early for work as usual and trying something different. Never been in this pub but I have served the manager in my shop a while ago, so I decided to greet her and wish her a good day. One of my Philosophy's make the world a better place!!

Wow cheers dude, I can see what your saying. I do feel sometimes asif I have just over done it and I need to chill out, Also I find that I can be hard on myself a lot of the time if I don't complete a lot in my day. But on the other side to the coin I want to be successful so bad and honestly will find anyway to accomplish it. I know I'm not going to get instant results and I am fully aware and happy with that, but the sooner the better for a number of things. Like Jim Royn saids its like a beautiful obsession. But then again he also states it doesn't have to be that extreme. But what you wrote I can see how I need to play that into my life. If i'm not having family time then whats the point of it all right? I guess I need to find a happy medium between working and investing my time in important experiences, and learn to become great full for what I am Doing. Life is all about them moments and we are all trying to get more of? I will definitely give Play a read and will let you know how I get on. I can not thank you enough, I can only tell you how much I appreciate your time spend on reading over my post and replying. The advice you gave was great this is the best thing about the forum, you receive advice people would pay for absolutely free. So I am great full, thank you

Im now posting in the mornings instead of at night about the previous day. The reason being is that I have demoed the forum posts for months at night, but I feel my posts are stronger if there uploaded at the train station in the mornings. Also by doing this it wakes me up in the mornings and prepares my brain for the day, sticking it in full throttle. Last night I spent the night doing nothing but reading the slight edge and, btw my favourite book ever. I then spent the morning reading more of the book on the bus and it did feel strange as no one else ever does it. But the part of the slight edge I was reading was about statistically at a funeral, at average ten people cry and the main reason people actually come to your burial after the service is the weather. So why spend time worrying about other people think when at the end of it all its going to end up like that. But if you stick the slight edge in to practice it could end up with crowds of people at the end, hundreds morning your death. if you are in the one percent that improve there life skills and use the slight edge, whats stopping you being like Martin Luther King or Gandhi? While on the bus as morning I watched a event I can only say was eye opening. I watched generosity being put in to action. While a man got on the bus he did have enough money to get on, so a complete stranger turned round to this guy and without taking no for a answer, paid his way. Th guy was over the moon and promised to repay her, and actually he did. He searched though his bag, trying to rummage the money and once he found it, repay the women. I then watched how happy the women had made him and herself. The guy could not have been more grateful but attempted to explain how much appreciated the lady generosity. The women looked as if she was on cloud nine. Its was just great seeing third person what the slight edge looks like.

Cheers dude!

23 days coffee free, been smoke free for 14 days and 12 days jogging in the mornings and up past the 2 mile average for every jog!! SMASHING LIFE! So last night I found myself watching a film with some of the family (which previously I would have loved) but instead I couldn't find myself grossed in the film. Instead I felt distant from the experience and felt like I was not being productive enough. Anyway what I'm getting too is that I am now at the point were Im telling myself I need to be productive if I want to be in the one percent, who actually succeed in life. So the other morning usual time at 5.00, I woke up knackered and every part of me was saying go to sleep, and all of a sudden this voice out of nowhere reminded me "99% of people would go back to sleep right now but that 1% who gets up takes control are the ones that succeed". When I spoke to Cam about this he explained this to me in more complex and more interesting term. There is a difference between what you want and what you really want. Because what you want is to sit on you ass and do nothing but thats not going to help. During our call Cam did ask me what had changed and honestly I didn't know. But It was so simple, starring me in the face the hole time. Cam: The only thing that has changed is the voice in you head telling you what to do.

Thanks Reno!! Love Rescue time!!! How did you even find out about that app? Great post and stay strong brother!!