jeffacce 20 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 (edited) Hi all, I'm Jeff. I'm a college student trying to improve personally. Starting today, I will stop playing video games, and I plan to journal my experience here. Cheers.# Day 1A few interesting observations as I break the habit of resorting to video games when I have downtime.While this is still an insufficient sample size of observations to reach any solid conclusions, it seems that I get a sense of urgency if I plan my day in advance.Right now, I'm trying to reform my habit ofDowntime (cue) – video game (routine) – stimulation (reward)toDowntime (cue) – resting/exercise (routine) – refreshment (reward).There might be other triggering scenarios like stress and procrastination, and I am finding a replacement routine for them. Meditating is a promising option – I have been doing it occasionally and I plan to commit more. Edited July 12, 2017 by jeffacce Day 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cam Adair 5,108 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Welcome Jeff! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Welcome aboard, Jeff! Look forward to reading your journal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
albrechtjess 97 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Cheers <3 we're here for each other, welcome aboard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom2 264 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Hi! welcome to the forum! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffacce 20 Posted July 13, 2017 Author Share Posted July 13, 2017 # Day 2Strong urges to play video games during the day. Feelings of angst came up as I restricted myself, so I watched gaming videos (will be switched to reading books), exercised, played guitar and meditated instead. I will be more occupied in the next few days with various work, and it would be easier not to think about games.I believe growth mindset here is important: willpower is acquired rather than inborn. Rewiring a brain likely involves exertion and effort (think about education, habit forming, motion recovery, sports learning, etc.)Looking forward to completely quitting video games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onlysoul 140 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 If we can change our lives you can do it too! Be strong and start making everything what's make you happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) Yes it takes a lot to work through the cravings. You pretty much have to starve your brain of its gaming fix. It looks like you are well on your way! Edited July 13, 2017 by Mettermrck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffacce 20 Posted July 15, 2017 Author Share Posted July 15, 2017 # Day 3Working and socializing seemed to curb my gaming urges.Exercised at night and deleted remaining games in my home desktop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom2 264 Posted July 15, 2017 Share Posted July 15, 2017 Great job! Keep it up! Let's see your number grow! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 15, 2017 Share Posted July 15, 2017 Great work, jeff, you're on the right track. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cam Adair 5,108 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 # Day 3Working and socializing seemed to curb my gaming urges.Exercised at night and deleted remaining games in my home desktop.All positive steps! Keep it up. This is all about being proactive instead of reactive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffacce 20 Posted July 17, 2017 Author Share Posted July 17, 2017 # Day 4I got depressed when I resisted playing video games, and I went on a day-long quest of observing myself and diagnosing what caused it.To bring in here some of what I learned from statistics, this is in fact an interesting causal inference problem: I am only aware of the symptoms and I have to deduce the causes. Statistics makes one wary of correlations – to oversimplify, things happening next to each other aren't necessarily causing one another. In my case, I could have attributed my lethargy to any combination of lack of caffeine, lack of exercise, yesterday's heat stroke from overexercising, and a myriad other potential causes. I don't think I'll be knowing this one for sure, but I hypothesize it was largely because of video games. I'll have to be aware of my changes and react accordingly.Caffeine helped elevate my mood in the morning but I was feeling down after lunch. Usually I resort to playing video games when I get bored – bad mood seems to be a trigger of this habit. By now I have mostly succeeded in substituting exercising for my old gaming habits.Onwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cam Adair 5,108 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 Remember that withdrawal symptoms such as depression, lethargy, mood swings, boredom, etc are all normal, especially within the first few weeks. Make sure you're exercising and eating well. Get outside often. These symptoms will pass. Gaming may relieve them temporarily, but they will be worse when you decide to quit again. You're already through the toughest part of them (the first 72 hours.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirjk 99 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 (edited) An active mind bypasses the thoughts of gaming! Keep up the good work, your brain is hungry for dopamine triggers, don't let it try and taste it. Edited July 17, 2017 by sirjk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 I'm glad you were able to find substitute habits for gaming, jeff. Keeping busy will really help you resist cravings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffacce 20 Posted July 17, 2017 Author Share Posted July 17, 2017 # Day 5Thanks for the support here!Again, occupying myself with work and socializing with my friends were very helpful. I just noticed that I didn't do much outside of home last weekend; that might have contributed to my boredom. I filled my calendar this week with work and get-togethers with old friends and classmates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 Yep, the more you fill your day, the less you'll be bored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom2 264 Posted July 18, 2017 Share Posted July 18, 2017 Good job! Keep up the good works! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffacce 20 Posted July 19, 2017 Author Share Posted July 19, 2017 # Day 6–7Two days filled with work. I think I've overworked myself and I'm very tired right now – undesirable, but observably different from the lethargy coming from boredom and no games. I notice that I now like to watch videos instead late into the night, and I will try to control that by leaving my laptop outside before sleep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cam Adair 5,108 Posted July 19, 2017 Share Posted July 19, 2017 Hey Jeff. If you've been working a lot make sure you find time to relax and recover - it's super important for sustaining your growth. This video can help: https://youtu.be/zKWVe4mtk1o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 19, 2017 Share Posted July 19, 2017 Hey, jeff, I hit that wall the last two days and had to take a rest from the gym in my case. I hated to stop my momentum, even for a day, but I think my body needed it. Yours probably does too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeffacce 20 Posted July 22, 2017 Author Share Posted July 22, 2017 # Day 8-10Mostly packed days with work and socialization. Gaming thoughts became much less frequent (although I had one this morning) and easier to deal with. Rested and feeling much better now. More stuff ahead. Onwards! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mettermrck 1,076 Posted July 22, 2017 Share Posted July 22, 2017 Sounds like you're on track, jeff! ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cam Adair 5,108 Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 Each day your gaming thoughts will continue to be less and less frequent. It's not exactly linear, and some days they may be more intense than others, but over time they will continue to reduce more and more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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