dullage

Totally agree were your coming from when you say: blaming the world and not being honest with yourself. I read in then book how to win friends and influence people (you must reed this book by the way) that any man can point the blame, point the finger and criticise, but it takes the stronger man and more mature who has self control to look at there actions and see how they could have helped instead of condemning.

Dude driving lessons is a great idea!!! They seemed to help me in a number of ways i wouldn't have even dreamed of could. They make you feel like your taking the first step to becoming productive and the r=feeling you get when you pass i have been told is amazing! Let us know how they go dude!!!!

woohoo well done dude. Stayed of off games!!!

haha i like that making mistakes is normally, couldn't agree more. Its funny i can sometimes hear me telling myself that .

Hey Ryan, nice to have you with us totally excited about your journey can't wait to hear more. Good luck and specially on the alcohol quitting.

Day two of my Coffee detox and just drinking Water and so far so good. The reason I'm doing this is simple, just because i can, to get me out of my comfort zone and because the only outcome i will get out of this is positive. Healthy, less sugar, saving money, break routine and the feeling of addiction. So now to my long term plan, dreams, goals deadlines for myself. 1 month, 6 months and a year plan. Here we go... 1 Month - Open a savings account and give the card to my nan so it cannot be touched and transfer my over time from my days of and commission money. - Finally pass my driving test and stop getting nervous and failing. - Finish at least two books - Receive ten likes on my new video - List every night in the forum and comment on 3 peoples statuses - To Have looked up about schooling in china to improve my speaking infant of people. - Joined another speaking class or a productive entrepreneurs class. - Be going for Jogs for at least ten minutes every morning and eating healthy. - I want to be doing overtime at working, working 6 to 7 days at week. - To have cut down my usage to my smartphone by half. - Using the slight edge in everyday life - Reviewing my days on how i could have improved and what i done well and what I'm grateful for 3 Months - Have saved up half the money to travel to Thailand - To have accomplished 2 to 3 speeches at Toastmasters and congratulate yourself for accomplishing this huge goal. - Have filmed 4 interviews with people for youtube about the affects on smartphones on us. - Be a lot closer with my Mum and thank her everything she done when i was young. - Have 400 views on each youtube video at least. - To be a okay about talking in front of people and be within the conversation when speaking to someone face to face. - To be more confident around women and be able to hold a decent convo while making them laugh - Be on a completely healthy diet and eating minimal sugar - To be speaking in public in schools or events at least once a month - I am going to be looking over my days, weeks and months and reviewing everyday on how i could have improved and what i done well. 1 Year - TO BE IN THAILAND READING THIS WITH A FAT SMILE ON MY FACE. - Be Earning a some money online anything from £10 month plus - Have 50 youtube Subscribers and upwards - To Be living on my own and have my own place - To have a business and a website in concrete for people to view and learn about my journey

Simple act of kindness today that uplifted me..... Last week i brought a coffee and forgot my card so the guy in the shop gave me the coffee and asked me to find time to pop back if i can. So i told him that i would be back in the week as another day when he opens i will be at work. I also made sure i remembered Sam's name. So today I walked back in called sam's name and handed him the money. He couldn't believe it he was so socked, as i could tell by the look on his face. Sam then turned round and said to me. Your are a amazing person!! I honestly fell that was the best 2 pound i have ever spent in my life!! Cheers Sam

How long were you gaming for dude, before you stopped

Don't worry about anything sounding stupid dude, this is your journey and your doing great. Always love reading over your pages

What a fantastic idea!!! how do you think of these things??

Been researching a lot about my new youtube channel and I'm extremely excited about looking into going to schools, making new videos and coming up with ideas for future youtube videos. I need to advertise my business somehow which i still need to be thinking off and write down a game plan for how I'm going to achieve this and by when. Tomorrows job!!! I know i want to help people in this idea and it frustrates me how everyone is doing this, so instead of moaning i going to go ahead and do what i can and try and change it. Tomorrow i need to make these things happen and they will be done.

Hows today go for you Leyla?

What helps me when I'm going though this the same as you is turn of or put down whatever I'm searching, googling on, and go for a walk. Even if its downstair in the kitchen to make a drink and start a new process.

Well done dude. I definitely need to start being grateful for my life and everything in it. What a great idea writing them down like this!!

Were to start, were to start. Well i took some time out today to work on a idea for my youtube channel which i have proudly thought of and know it is the way forward for me. I going to start looking in to speaking at schools as what i have learnt from toastmasters is that there is no better way to smash down your barriers than to face them head on. By doing this it will help with my confidence and start taking me on the journey i know i need to head in now. Today also was a busy day with family and friends and driving lessons but i still made time fitting in work. What stuck with me yesterday from my Skype call with Cam is as follows: You hear all the time people moaning that the days go too quick and roll in to one. Why is this? They wake up go to work, come home and sit in front of the tv, they turn there brain to mush and go to sleep. Day in day out. And moan that life goes to quick. If they only used there time more efficiently, learning, improving them selves. Looking back on watching tv so taking for example when i watched factor a thew months ago, i remember having a shower after and while standing in the shower thinking about how i would audition on the factor and what i would sing. I mean I'm not even interested in singing, i wouldn't or have never wanted to pursue a career in the music industry. This showed me, shined a light on just how much TV influences us on a regular basis.

Thanks for sharing. I make too many excuses instead of committing to solving things. We are all different people and that's why we can learn from eachother Hundred percent right. What a great opportunity we have being in this group. Think about how many people would love to be in a group like this but don't know they exist.

Different things work for different people. I guess you right. Cheers for the comment dude

Thanks dude. If its okay with you i would love to use your daily generous strategy you use on your posts, what a great idea.

30/6/16 Amazing talk with Cam today... so learnt a thew bits i would like to share... 1. Give Value not just to people on this forum but in life, and see how much my life changes. 2. Instead of making excuses ask your self how can I? EG. I don't have to go to a gym! A gym is just a building i can exercise anywhere. 3. I noticed today how much i actually make excuses to people even when I'm taking responsibility, its like I'm saying poor me. 4. Success is all about commitment. 5. If you don't have ten minutes you don't have a life. 6. Fake it till you make it strategy is doomed from the beginning Cheers Cam for tonight, YOU THE MAN!

Next time you know better and it will be easier. Yes Agreed i do!! Could punch myself honestly still now! Thanks for the comment Dude Today i woke up nice and early and worked on my youtube channel, researching and reviewing for a couple of hours and then spent the day at Thorpe park, uk theme park. Amazing day went on all the rides even though i had droughts about me going on them all. We did start speaking on this one girl on one of the rides that seemed to follow us and regret so much not asking her for her number!!!! Next time I can't let that happen again ! Tomorrow is a big day, catch up with a load of bits and messages i been meaning to get to. Next time you know better and it will be easier.

Hey Niels, great to have you here joining us

Hey Leyla thanks for posting!! I'm following you as i can't wait till your next post!! Im sure its going to be as good as this one

Cant believe how inspiring your posts are!! To be honest i have never read anyones posts on here but reading yours as you commenting on my page a while ago i know its time for change!! Cheers Dude

Seriously dude attending a toastmasters event is one of the best feelings you will ever have. The sense of self achievement you receive from attending is indescribable. I was late the first time i attended and everyone there was so understanding and no one judges. Its like a different world the people there are from. TRUST ME DUDE, YOU RIGHT, FUCK FEAR.

Today i woke up nice and early and worked on my youtube channel, researching and reviewing for a couple of hours and then spent the day at Thorpe park, uk theme park. Amazing day went on all the rides even though i had droughts about me going on them all. We did start speaking on this one girl on one of the rides that seemed to follow us and regret so much not asking her for her number!!!! Next time I can't let that happen again ! Tomorrow is a big day, catch up with a load of bits and messages i been meaning to get to.