Sharing with your significant other

[Ashley K.]

This may be a rant so just bear with me.

For the past 2 days, my husband felt the need to wear my sunglasses while he's on the computer because he says that the monitor hurts his eyes. 

I've been telling him over and over that he needs to go see an ophthalmologist. He said with what money? (he hasn't found a job in a year). I have issues sharing things that belong to  me.  Now I don't know if I'm being selfish or what. I just have issues with him using my things. Should I just let it go and let him use my things or be a little annoyed about it and tell him?

[WorkInProgress]

If their is no solid alternative(their are usually Buttons at the bottom of the screen were you can adjust the desktop to a pretty dark Level) I would try to live with it. It just seems unsignificant. I think a big part of stable relationship is to let the small things that annoy you be and be brave enough to argue about the things that really matters to you.  

Edited September 16, 2016 by WorkInProgress