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    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-20: day 20
    90 day detox: | #####~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 22.2% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~1.30am
      • read lord of the rings
    • woke up ~10.00am
      • brush teeth, breakfast, tea
    • worked from home

    Activities:

    • prayed
    • practice typing
      • 34 word per min
    • side project game
    • draw

    Another night of low quality sleep. I have this cold that doesn't seem to want to go away. Ended up waking up in the middle of the night, took a shower and read lord of the rings to try and put myself back to sleep. I'm halfway into the two towers and Frodo and Sam have been following Gollum through Ilthilien to Minas Morgul. I relate to Frodo because he's exhausted and his only goal for the entire book is to just keep going no matter what the odds are.

    I slept for most of the morning trying to recover lost sleep and I worked from home because I just can hardly even think about public transit let alone go outside in the cold. When trying to quit gaming it would be nice if I could actually feel well rested, healthy and motivated all the time. It would help but I guess not a guaranteed.

    Around lunch I took a break and practiced some typing. I'm using keybr.com and am enjoying it. I'm pretty slow especially on my right hand which is weird because that's my dominant hand.

    After work I spent some more time working on my side project. I didn't end up going to a networking event I planned to. Would have been nice to be social today but I enjoyed the time alone. Time to be by myself and relax.

    Sadly no Scala today though it was part of my plan. My fiance is working late tonight so I have the whole night to myself. A couple of times my mind started thinking about turning on a game. I miss crusader kings 2. But it passed and I was able to sit down and draw for the first time in a very long time.
    I poured 2 hours into it and it felt good.
    I used to draw a lot in high school. I would often idly scratch something into my notebook during class. At one point I wanted to be able to draw actual characters so I drilled for at least 10 minutes a day sketching character poses and portraits. Was around the time I fell in love with anime and decided I wanted to create my own manga. I haven't done much of that since college but maybe now I'll have more time to spend on still-lifes. If I ever get a drawing tablet I would like to get into digital art.

    Not feeling the best so I may work from home again and I'm definitely not even going to try waking up early tomorrow morning.

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 8.00am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • work from home (probably)
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read Lord of the Rings before bed

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • work on video game a bit at night
    • typing
    • Call a vendor for wedding
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    Kona’s Journal

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    @Kona450 wish you best of luck and lots of strength. Amazing that you've been able to get control over gambling and seeing a counselor. Sounds like you have a lot of awareness and understanding of yourself.

    I'm sure you will be able to overcome gaming as well!

    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-19: day 19
    90 day detox: | #####~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 21.1% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~1.00am
      • read lord of the rings
    • woke up 6.50am
      • brush teeth, breakfast, tea
    • worked from home

    Activities:

    • prayed
    • wedding planning
    • cooked dinner
    • practice typing
      • 38 word per min

    Didn't sleep the greatest last night so I worked from home instead. Kept dreaming about writing unit tests for my game.
    I'm now transitioning from my previous project to a new one which can be hard for me sometimes if I'm not sure where to start. This time I am since it's just an extension of a previous task I've worked on.

    I haven't spent any time on Scala or my side project today which is disappointing. Instead filled a lot of whatever time I had with either Youtube or netflix.
    I have a setting on my phone that deactivates either app once I've gone over my "budget" with them.

    Was watching some more history related stuff on YT about Italy. When I ran out of that I switched to netflix and burned down my hour long budget for it.
    I know I should be avoiding this kind of behavior. My mind is looking for ways to distract itself when I should be putting my energy towards my goals.

    I decided it's about time I become better at typing. I have a kind of bastardized form of touch typing where I don't really need to look at the keyboard but I'm really only using like the same 3 fingers at most and my hand is flying all over the keyboard.
    Right now looks like my speed is up to about 38 words per minute which is probably only slightly above average.
    I would like to be at 75 which is very fast.

    My job requires enough typing where by now this is a skill I really should have mastered. I've just convinced myself I don't need to since I can more or less type.

    Tonight I cooked which is great. I usually don't stockpile ingredients I would need to cook since I can never be sure when I'll actually do it. I worked from home today so I went to the store picked up stuff and made lentil soup.
    Second time so far and my fiance really appreciated it.

    It was really nice to eat something fresh and home made for once. We were both in a good mood for the rest of the evening.
    Amazing what home cooking can do.

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 6.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • go to work
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read Lord of the Rings before bed

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • work on video game a bit at night
    • go to a networking event
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    Dirac's Journal

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    5 hours ago, dirac said:

    I want to develope myself like a plan on how to play it without falling into madness again. Like picking maybe a day a week where I dont have uni stuff and allow myself a certain amount of time to game. If it fails I am gonna bring my computer to my parents during the excam phase so I will not be tempted ?

    Good thinking. I hope you find a way to make games a healthy part of your life.
    I still have my steam account that I don't have the heart to delete just yet. I'm hoping I can one day bring games back into my day to day but I'm hesitant.

    JRiz's journal

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    I've also thought about deleting my steam account.
    There's a short gif on one of the pinned comments in r/stopgamming showing how to delete a steam account.
    It's actually scary for me to look at.

    Give it time I guess. You're best off deleting it since it will remove the temptation but yeah, that's not easy.

    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-18: day 18
    90 day detox: | ####~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 20.0% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~12.30am
      • read lord of the rings
    • woke up 7.50am
      • brush teeth
    • went to work ~8.30am

    Activities:

    • prayed
    • Called florists today

    Still simmering from yesterday. I felt kind of tired and numb the whole day.
    Managed to finish up last parts to a project at work and now moving on to the next.

    I haven't had any time to focus on learning Scala which has been kind of frustrating. No time spent on my side project, the game.

    I've been using youtube as a handy substitute for gaming to keep my frustration at bay.

    I did manage to speak to a couple of florists today for the wedding and schedule appointments with them. Hopefully we can find someone soon. I'm getting anxious as the weeks go by and we haven't locked down any one of our vendors.
    Tonight both my fiance and I came home tired and couldn't muster any energy to put towards wedding planning.

    Hoping tomorrow to feel better

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 6.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • go to work
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read Lord of the Rings before bed

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • cook
    • work on video game a bit at night
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    Dear Diary...

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    2 hours ago, BooksandTrees said:

    Lol I can't even make it 24 hours without porn. God damn. 

     

    I think it's because I feel sick tonight. This stress has crushed my immune system and I caught this dumb cold. It's making me nauseous and I'm just frustrated tonight. I'm just relaxing tonight which is nice. I just hope I can go to work tomorrow so I can finish my work. 

    Caught a cold also a couple of days ago. It's tough being sick, tired, and sick of public transit and then on top of that have to find ways to take up my time that aren't the vices I've previously relied on.

    Good you took the time to relax!

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    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-17: day 17
    90 day detox: | ####~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 18.9% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~12.30am
    • woke up 8.30am
      • brush teeth, breakfast, tea
    • Wedding Planning

    Activities:

    • breakfast and tea
    • prayed
    • Called vendors
    • Went to networking event

    Today was tough. We spent most of the day working on parts of the wedding that need to come together. All of the vendors are still a question for us. We do the research but then find ourselves choosing between the cheaper option and the better option which means adjusting our budget. The thing about a budget is if you add money somewhere you need to take it from somewhere else.

    On top of that my fiance and I got into a fight over something really didn't need to turn into an argument. I got very upset and went for a walk where we talked on the phone still arguing. I came back, we hugged each other and cried for a bit. The issue itself is still unresolved for me.

    I really wanted to end the conversation and just switch on a game and switch off. I guess the one victory here for me is I didn't

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 6.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • go to work
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read Lord of the Rings before bed

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • cook
    • work on video game a bit at night

    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-16: day 16
    90 day detox: | ####~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 17.8% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~11.30pm (perfect)
    • woke up 8.20am
      • brush teeth, breakfast, tea
      • read two books (Scala, Rich Dad Poor Dad) 
    • Hung out with friends

    Activities:

    • breakfast and tea
    • prayed
    • studied a bit of Scala
    • Had a birthday movie night for a friend

    Here's my placeholder for now. It's late and I need to sleep but will fill in the rest tomorrow morning.

    UPDATE:
    Not much done on Friday like I thought though in the morning I was able to figure out what was wrong with my IDE for writing unit tests in the Game Library I'm using.
    Something about Gradle that I don't fully get... but it works now!

    It was my friend's birthday this weekend so me and a bunch of others planned a whole thing. I helped out with some of the cooking and setting stuff up in the evening for the party. Was really nice and I felt part of the group. It's something I've really only had the chance of experiencing the past two years.
    All my years struggling through college were spent alone. I had few friends and those I had I receded from completely to hide from my issues and play games instead.

    Now I have a group of friends I hang out with but I still have trouble watering that garden. It's difficult for me to stay in touch with people unless I see them face to face regularly. It's lost me a good number of my friends in the past and video gaming made it even worse.

    Saturday was just relaxing. I woke up around 8.30am which is before my fiance wakes up and I had a couple of hours to myself.
    Sat down with a handbook on Scala reading more on handling state transitions in a purely functional way. It's a paradigm that I'm realizing is going to take me a while to get used to.
    The other book I'm currently working through is a basic book on personal finance called Rich Dad Poor Dad. It's a very easy read. The first few chapters are him talking about growing up and how he first learned about money. It hooked me in easily. The rest so far has him bashing the middle class understanding of finance and how they trap themselves in debt and things they think are assets but really are just draining them of money. It described my dad so well that is kind of scary.
    This part of the book feels more like a prophecy of what's going to happen to me.

    The rest of the day went as I expected it. Nice and slow. We had lunch and a few of us stayed in my apartment and hung out talking. That night I picked up the pizza and we had a "birthday" movie night for our friend. Was really just an excuse to eat junk food and watch a late nineties movie.

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 7.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • do some wedding planning
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read Lord of the Rings before bed

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • cook
    • call a vendor for the wedding

    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-14: day 14
    90 day detox: | ####~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 15.6% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~1.30am
      • read about a page of Lord of the Rings
    • woke up 7.35am
      • brush teeth, breakfast, no tea ? 
    • went to work ~8.30am

    Activities:

    • breakfast but no tea ?
    • prayed
    • spoke to my mom about family emails
    • figured out thanksgiving plans
    • worked on Scala after work

    Went to sleep late last night so in the morning I woke up an hour later than I like to and was drowsy most of the morning.
    Drank tea once I got to work.
    Turned on my computer and got cracking. Was actually very focused on work and the project I'm currently on. I still feel kind of insecure about my position within my team and I've been there over a year at this point.

    I managed to practice some Scala after work. Up to week 3 and it's all about handling stateful programs functionally which should prove actually useful for me.

    After work my fiance and I took a break from wedding planning and went out to eat. Was pricey but very good. 

    Once we got home my fiance sat down to write a couple messages to family members. I looked at my newsfeed and saw a kotaku article on a game called Unity of Command 2. It's WWII strategy game and it looked interesting from the review. I've also watched a bunch of youtube videos on the eastern front of the war and am kind of itching now to try and play out the logistics and supply war but in a game.
    It makes me sad because I so wish I could enjoy something like that but I know what it's going to turn into for me.
    I wish I could rather make something as cool as that rather then be tempted by it.

    Tomorrow won't be so productive because it's Friday:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 6.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • work from home
    • cook for the weekend
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read Lord of the Rings before bed

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • cook all the food
    • call a vendor for the wedding

    Dirac's Journal

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    8 hours ago, dirac said:

    He further says that the difference between those people who actually do it and the ones that dont is their habits and how they live everyday.

    Thanks for sharing this. It's very interesting. I think I've heard something like this before from other sources
    I would like to build in more habits in my life.

    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-13: day 13
    90 day detox: | ###~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 14.4% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~12.30am (hurray)
      • read a book (Lord of the Rings)
    • woke up 6.30am (2x hurray)
      • morning routine
      • worked on video game a bit
    • went to work ~8.30am

    Activities:

    • had tea and breakfast
    • prayed
    • worked on the video game
    • wedding planning
      • spoke to 2 vendors today

    Today I actually woke up around the time I wanted to but my morning wasn't so productive. I managed to make tea and breakfast for myself, brush my teeth, put on clothes and I sat down to work on one of my goals. Debated whether or not I get started on week 3 of the Scala course early or if I switch to working on my video game. The video game has been fun. I like putting together the hex map framework and it is giving me a chance to write a stateful program but in an immutable and pure functional way. Doing my best to try and take what I'm learning into daily practice.
    I chose to work on the game but got bogged down in an issue with my dev environment and didn't end up making much progress.
    Eventually the clock struck 8.15 and it was time to pack it up and go.

    Got to work at a decent time. Sat down with my phone for a bit while brooding over the work that I'm a little behind in. I'm constantly worried about my performance and I'm not sure whether or not I'm really hitting the "bar" for my team. Today we had a meeting about a recent project my team completed together. There was some feedback that we got that was related to the parts I was mostly responsible for. It made me question myself again and I'm always wondering whether or not I'm fully qualified to succeed in this field. I love programming which is what frustrates me at my job that this love doesn't immediately translate to success. So much of what I do depends on delivering a working and profitable project within a limited time frame. The quality and precise nature of the code is barely even tertiary to that.

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 6.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • go to work
    • cook
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read a book (currently Lord of the Rings)

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • more wedding planning.
      • Probably talk to more vendors
        • need to find more photographers for comparison
      • need to call my mom to get family emails
    • figure out my plans for thanksgiving

    Dirac's Journal

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    7 hours ago, dirac said:

    I think its kind of a bad habit to rate days on how productive they are because life should be about more than productivity . Its just a bit difficult sometimes when you wanted a day to go like that and then it goes completly different.

    yeah I totally get it. I get like that also. I get aggravated when I don't feel as productive as I would like.
    For me I think it's born out a perfectionist nature

    Avnat's Journal

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    2019-11-12: day 12
    90 day detox: | ###~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | 13.3% Complete

    Today:

    • went to sleep ~1.30am
      • read a book (Lord of the Rings)
    • woke up 7.45am
    • Day off (this time for real)

    Activities:

    • had tea and breakfast
    • prayed
    • watched a lot of youtube
    • practiced Scala
    • worked a little bit on Video Game
    • wedding planning
      • spoke to another vendor (photographer)
      • left a message with a florist
      • tweaked the guest list

    So today was actually my day off. I asked my boss if I could take the day since yesterday was kind of a bust for me and I actually wanted to accomplish some personal items. He said yes which was great. I stayed home. Most of the morning was cold and rainy. I was really drowsy the whole day. Went to sleep latish last night again and it was tough to wake up in the morning.

    I didn't end up having as much motivation today as yesterday. Ended up sitting on youtube a while watching world war 2 videos about the eastern front. Very dramatic stuff and I love watching videos on military tactics and troop deployments. It's similar to watching replay of a strategy game except these are events that actually happened.

    The day kind of went by like a thick soup. No particular moments stand out and the rest I just remember with a sort of blurry fatigue. I did manage to work on Scala for the afternoon.
    I finished the assignment for this week of the course. It was a puzzle solver performing state transitions but with immutable data and pure functions. Cool stuff. Not sure how I would use that in my actual job but it's fascinating.
    I really enjoy functional programming and it makes me feel cool. I'm all about feeling cool.

    Also took some time to work a bit on a video game. Want to make a 2d hex grid as a map. Following this guide --> https://www.redblobgames.com/grids/hexagons/ . It's super comprehensive and even has a basic blue print for how to design the grid in code.

    My fiance came home from work a little on the later side (7pm) and she was fuming. We got straight to working on wedding planning but she was aggravated and I got aggravated also. The planning itself is tough and she has a demanding job and I'm also anxious about doing well at my job. All in all we didn't get as much done.
    We had leftovers for dinner and just sat and relaxed on the couch for a bit. I felt very tired.

    My plan for tomorrow:

    Tomorrow:

    • wake up 6.30am
      • morning routine
      • learn Scala
    • go to work
    • cook
    • go to sleep by 12am
      • read a book (currently Lord of the Rings)

    Activities:

    • Learn Scala
    • pray
    • cook
    • more wedding planning.
      • Probably talk to more vendors
      • get people's emails for a save the date

    GN fellow game quitters...

    No Game, My Life

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    5 hours ago, Dig said:

    NO GAMING DAY 4 | NO COFFEE DAY 4

    Good Afternoon,

    Unfortunately, I failed I broke up 2 months ago and back to gaming. I'm passing for some problems and I don't know what to do, I almost played today because I want to run away from reality and forget these problems. So I'm writing this to calm down and try to stop gaming again.

    That's tough but you're back now and that's what matters. Sending you love and comfort over this digital bridge that separates us. Your strength is going to renew and it's going to guide you to the place you want to be.

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    Icandothis journal

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    12 hours ago, Icandothis said:

    I had some really deep conversations with my mom.  She told me how she thinks I don’t love her. My dad also doesn’t think I love him. I am just not an outwardly loving type of person. I am quiet, still and loyal. I don’t do these little gestures that my parents find important. 

    That's great. I'm glad your parents were able to express that to you even though it might have been hard for both you and them.
    I hope they learn to see the ways you do love them and that they find ways to give you love and support when you need it.

    It may be hard for them but maybe more conversations like that is what they need to hear.

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    Maintenance of the PhoenixKing

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    8 hours ago, Phoenixking said:
    Friday I had the taping of my first episode. The voice directing wasn't so hard. I just had to keep an eye on the quality of it all. The actors were absolutely amazing. I had booked about 3 hours of studio time and they nailed in 2! Even with a long break included! This is a very good sign for the future! Now all that's left is editing and post-production. I'm so fucking excited. It was amazing to be able to be in the studio and see the voice-acting get done, make jokes with the whole crew, ... A dream come true. An utter mindfuck.
    ...

    -Make the bed - Still going strong...

    That's amazing man! good luck with the rest of filming!

    Hey I appreciate you have "Make the bed" as a daily priority. I also try and make the bed every morning no matter what and I find it helps start my day right. I just need to keep the rest of my room organized also.

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    The Greatest Revolution

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    3 hours ago, ismailkanaan said:

    3- going out and speaking with real world people  to skip my introvert and start making friends .

    Hey if you consider yourself an introvert type consider reading Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by: Susan Cain
    Not sure if it comes in other translations other than English but I found it immensely helpful in understanding my own introverted nature

    Yeah we're kind of disadvantaged when it comes to making new friends and in a world that worships extroversion being an introvert tends to be painful.
    But we actually have a lot of abilities that a pure extrovert lacks one of them being the ability to have deeper, richer relationships with the few people we do connect with.

    The Greatest Revolution

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    9 hours ago, ismailkanaan said:

    i have done a mini achievement today ! 15 days in a row waking up at around 5:30 am

    Way to go man!

    I'mlooking to fix my sleep schedule also with not much success. When I actually figure it out I'm sure it will be one of the best changes I can make to my daily schedule

    Dirac's Journal

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    8 hours ago, dirac said:

    On the other hand though if you set goals that are way too high you might get more stressed than motivated.

    Yeah I agree with you. Setting unrealistic goals and then not achieving them can be pretty demotivating.

    I guess, the way I see it, if you set a goal and don't reach it, yeah you may have to adjust the bar a little lower but at least that means you attempted something significantly difficult for yourself.

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