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  1. Hey, I haven't checked the forum in over a month and just noticed your reply. I'm sorry for taking so long, one could expect a reply after asking someone a question lol.. The reasons for my absence here have all been positive though, life is good and I'm making progress on almost all fronts. I mean, there's not much more to add. I'm sure people will purposefully try to make life seem better than it is. There's a huge draw for many because ultimately we all want to be part of something and be liked/receive praise. That it's pretty shallow in many ways I suppose isn't that big of a deal for many. I also prefer deeper connections without any filters. I haven't read that one but have heard of it. Besides a few others book that I've read I'm halfway through "The power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg. I believe it has a lot of similarities to Atomic Habits. Pretty profound info if you ask me. Haha I can so relate to that. Youtube is by far my biggest challenge at the moment and even though I didn't experience many cravings after quitting, I have them now on a daily basis when it comes to watching things on youtube. It's so easy to start a quick video over breakfast, which I try to have without any distractions but is very challenging too, and find yourself sitting there for hours on end watching one video after the other. About a week ago I've started a dopamine fast in which I'll abstain from all the big dopamine spiking activities such as youtube and it's been pretty intense up until now. According to Anna Lembke, the author of Dopamine Nation, whom describes this whole approach in her book, the first two weeks will be the most intense where anyone will feel considerably worse than before they started with the fast. But after that I should be starting to feel better and in the process start to appreciate some of the more simple things in life that seemed utterly boring in comparison. I feel you. Having a lot of free time is extra challenging and I'm so much easier off when I'm working. How's everything going with you?
  2. Thank you so much for the warm welcome! I haven't been online much since posting my introduction hence the late reply. I can't stress it enough that not being alone in this makes a huge difference. My account will be gone in a few days from now and it honestly feels like a relief. That are so really clever suggestions, thank you. I have had to deal with some nostalgic feelings and my mind wandering off thinking about WoW but I've fortunately haven't experienced many cravings until now. In the case that I will I won't hesitate and apply some of the things you suggested. I ain't going back. I wish you the best too, we got this! PS: I like your foot note a lot. That is pretty damn impressive mate, well done! These achievements outweigh anything that can be acquired in games ten folds. I've been listening to a lot of podcasts and reading books about habits, dopamine and the likes and I'm fascinated about all these topics. I feel like I'm completely having to rebuilt or reshape myself from the ground up in order to take control back over my own life and happiness and I'm really excited. What made you decide to stop social media and to quit watching youtube/twitch?
  3. So here I am, after a life long struggle with games it's time to put a stop to it entirely. Let's do this! I'm Nico, a 35 year old guy from the Netherlands and I've moved to Switzerland mid last year to live with my Swiss girlfriend after having been in a long distance relationship for about a year a half. My gaming history dates back to when the Nintendo and Gameboy entered my life at a very young age and needless to say, it wasn't for the better. It wasn't too long after that gaming became the most enjoyable and important thing in my life. I can still remember when I was playing Warcraft III on the pc so much that in order to stop I broke the cd's only to find myself back in the store the day after to buy it again. Not once but multiple times. Being a sucker for fantasy games, 2005 changed my life for good when World of Warcraft was released and boy oh boy, that game blew my mind and socks off. Fast forward to 2019, where I owned my own coffee truck for about 3 years which was doing well (my girlfriend at the time helped me a ton to make this business come to life, on a very frequent basis I fell for urges to play all sorts of games, from video games to table top games such as Warhammer but she pulled me back on track every single time) and I was loving life. Swimming regularly, surfing, mountain biking and being social with lots of fun things in my agenda. Life was great at that moment and I remember telling my dad "I can't believe why I've wasted so much time playing games, this is hundred times better". Then I had a bad crash riding my mountain bike and broke my collarbone so badly I had to undergo surgery and I couldn't work for about two months. The funny thing is, and that realization just hit me, during that summer I had seen the announcements for the relaunch of WoW classic and I never considered playing it. You probably already guessed it, after that big physical and also mental set back, I did what I always did when life set me back or became challenging, I turned to games. I picked up WoW classic to give it a go whilst I couldn't work and was recovering from the surgery and it gradually sucked me into the deepest hole I've ever found myself in. I've had very bad streaks of gaming before playing Call of Duty for 16hrs a day for weeks on end only to stop because I had to work (if I hadn't called in sick) but this was another beast entirely. I think it was a combination of playing and everything else related to the game and guild I was in on discord. It just never stopped. I went to bed with it, woke up with it and all I did with every spare minute that I had spare was engaging with it in some way or form. After spending nearly two months in Portugal on a work away trip to escape the ever increasing addiction at the start of 2021, I felt somewhat better and ready for the planned relocation to Switzerland. Unfortunately it didn't quite work out the way we both envisioned it and right before Christmas a couple of weeks ago, she told me she had enough of it. I had at that point tried everything I possibly could to control my addiction by setting up parental controls multiple times but to no avail. I'd just get them removed because I was the account holder without my mum knowing. I was out of control and even the thought of giving it all up and not playing anymore, which my close family had mentioned a few times, where simply unthinkable and not an option. I still can't grasp how I could deliberately destroy the relationship with my girlfriend, whom I had thought I'd spent the rest of my life with, and lie and manipulate to get my fix. Hitting rock bottom did it though, after hearing that she had enough I quit on the 17th of December and haven't played the game since. We spent Christmas separated being with our own families and I'm so grateful that she has given me another chance. Quitting WoW and the guild sometimes feels like I've amputated an arm but I know I'm making the right decision. Initially I just gave all my in game belongings away and put parental controls on for max 1 hour per week playtime so that going back to playing was very hard. After the first two modules of the Game Quitters course I realized what really needed to be done and I've requested Blizzard to delete my account entirely two days ago. This time it ain't going to be the same as the countless times I tried to quit or thought I had quit. I'm going to focus on the roots of the problems that cause my gaming addiction and built myself from the ground up again so I can withstand all the temptations out there and finally free myself of this gruesome addiction. I feel strengthened by the fact that I'm not alone in this and if there's anything I can do for anyone of you, please don't hesitate and reach out! Much love, Nico
  4. Hey mate, I've just created my account in order to introduce myself to all of you when my eye caught your post. Your first name did it haha. Nice to meet you Nico 🙂 Saying that I can relate to almost everything you said is by no means a coincidence here on the forum but I still do and think that you are without question doing the right thing. I'm with you on this exact same journey and feel strengthened by it. Let's freaking go indeed and if you ever feel the need to chat or if I can help out in any other way, just holler!
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