Relapse relationship

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Hey I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice. I have quit games twice now and got to about 22 days each time. I relapsed both toes for the same reasons.... I basically sgot to a point where I got a little confidence and dated a  girls and it felt like I'd spend more time with her and my life goals went to the back burner which meant that gaming would kind of replace that lack of direction again. I've also had problems with sex addiction in the past and I feel the two ( gaming and sex) are triggers for eachother. So I have worked my way up to quitting again but I don't want to but that landmine of dating again but I still want meaningful relationships. Anyone got any suggestions?