Hey man! You didn't write much but I have to ask, because I know your nickname... Is your real life Mike (MichaĆ)? I think we used to attend primary school together and to be honest I have a similar problem to you (I guess) if you're on this forum. Contact me here or via email mobuchowskimuz@gmail.com, maybe we can help each other out at least a bit? My irl name is Marek and if you are who I think you are then you deleted your facebook.
Edit:
I browsed a bit through your post history, I guess this is a misunderstanding unless my 22 year old friend actually does have a child right now :P.