Oh and credit where credit is due, Cam....great TED talk, really hit home for me. I will try to help here when I can but I am in the early stages of a 30 year addiction to gaming. Wow now I sound old. Modern games are particularly not healthy either, like the Bliss point in food (just enough sugar to not overload but keep you hooked) gaming now keeps you on a constant cycle of making it just that bit easier for you to upgrade and keep you coming back. I even played Clash of the Clans on my ipoad, evn bought another iphone so I could play more. Spending money to upgrade non tangible items....really! Wife had a word with me, a very stern word with me over my addiction to Clash of Clans, I mean I was on it all day and even in bed. First thing I looked at in the morning, while I watched films and even on holiday. Thinking about it I really have messed up haven't I? Still....2 days in....many more to go. I'm reading Pscho Psybernetics book at the moment which is really helping me a lot to understand myself. http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=psycho+cybernetic&tag=googhydr-21&index=aps&hvadid=32177940129&hvpos=1t1&hvexid=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=64671284795045484&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=e&hvdev=c&ref=pd_sl_ekn5br6y7_e Looks like my mid life crisis is going to be all about fixing those wasted years instead of a crappy sports car. If I can give my business the energy I gave all night gaming sessions then I will be ok.