Revising course materials today to pass the exam.

 

Day 1 of limiting talk shows and nba league.

Edited July 19Jul 19 by Amphibian220

I feel like i passed the test, will wait to see the results. I feel fatigued but am not certain if I need counseling. I heard that counseling can make it worse if their approach is wrong.

This is it for today and I actually did something positive towards my goals. But my goals are hampered without a true community. I don't like jobs where im a stranger to people.

I know this is extremely condensed but I may get more strength to write tomorrow.

I hope all the frank members on thia forum dont succumb to laziness. wishing everyone well.

Edited July 19Jul 19 by Amphibian220

Work didn't go so well today. I had difficulty focusing. I exercise on a daily basis, look after my clothes, but need help in the way of communication.

Nba league will not replace communication for me.

Who's your fav NBA team?

@Cam Adair

Thanks for bringing the forum back on line, it was very tough going without the diary and support here. I don't have a favourite player, i watch it just to pass the time.

I still cant understand the pattern of failure 4 years on. I got into a challenging job, i was pushing my limits, but then my health got worse. Two years into that job, I wasn’t sure i wanted to carry on with it and wanted something different. I went after many iterations, making proposals to businesses, but so far nothing has come of it.

There was far more energy when i was starting the first detox. I relapsed into things like tv shows, sports and comedy. 

I am past detoxes. I scan the forum to see people recovering and do things that appear impossible to me.

Edited August 10Aug 10 by Amphibian220

I’ve run out of steam, barely sustaining work. I will try doing memorization for my next exam, but i dont know if i will have the necessary strength to pass it . In the past passing was a matter of putting in the time, but now i am balancing health, work and education. 

I am grateful for this journal, but I would want members on this forum to run to my help and give me a hand or hug me, but that is impossible because they aren’t here. They all have their jobs and families to look after. @Cam Adair

I look like a very tired guy trying to improve career prospects. Interviewers seem to be shaking their heads when they see me. skills that I learned two years ago have devalued. I had to invest money and time in new skills and I haven’t done that.

Edited August 19Aug 19 by Amphibian220

 

1 hour ago, Amphibian220 said:

I’ve run out of steam, barely sustaining work. I will try doing memorization for my next exam, but i dont know if i will have the necessary strength to pass it . In the past passing was a matter of putting in the time, but now i am balancing health, work and education. 

I am grateful for this journal, but I would want members on this forum to run to my help and give me a hand or hug me, but that is impossible because they aren’t here. They all have their jobs and families to look after. @Cam Adair

I look like a very tired guy trying to improve career prospects. Interviewers seem to be shaking their heads when they see me. skills that I learned two years ago have devalued. I had to invest money and time in new skills and I haven’t done that.

I took health and exercise courses for ~12 months a few years back now, and felt ready to take on any practical role at a gym, but it was as though I was meant to be receptive to indoctrination, or positively leaping (even more than I was mentally) to serve everyone I could see, posthaste. Another gym wanted at least 6 months of relevant experience - then I would be considered. One outgoing young man I remember was laughing nervously that he bluffed his way into an interview early in his studies, and then couldn't really back himself up. The two of us should have already been a study team is what I thought.

Your summaries are among the best here, dude. I know you said that you won't believe that anyone is 'lost', but there's the good kind of loss/immersion as well. I actually doubt if I could personally provide deliberate instruction for you to do anything, compared to everyone else here who has a busy life.

My most recent gym session involved 100 total repetitions of 3 exercises at a moderate-heavy weight. I just wanted to burn those movements into my brain. Memorisation indeed - my Dad often claimed to have learned by repetition, but still regards resistance training semi-seriously as 'torture'. You've got to feel at least something about the journey, as well as think and remember it, IMO.

I spent some time a couple weeks of this year reading 'Surrounded by Idiots', with those 4 DISC personality colours. You know, I always imagined you fitting the Red/Dominant type. Maybe that's just an enduring ideal for a lot of males who've experienced some driven work before. People can change/revert to natural tendencies; I eventually did. 

You mentioned shooter games and watching sport; I was never much good at either, but maybe you could join debating groups or work on sporting event commentary. I dunno. If you're out of steam, or even ideas in general, there has to be a change or allowance made, right?

Happy mid-week Amph. 

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Thanks, when i stop communicating, the worst thing happens. Anger or worries start to fill up my mind. The crap is just automatic, so i need to constantly talk to people throughout the day.

I need to switch jobs but i don't know how. As i finish my tasks and get home, i watch documentaries and sports.

I go for the cheapest stuff. The excitement and morale that i got years back from reading self help books and embarking upon recovery subsided and i got demoralized. I cant be upbeat anymore. Perpetual worrying fatigue.

I want to join a charitable cause and help people, but that will have to be a part time thing on the weekends. It doesnt work online, i need to create a real self help group in my locale so that men can support each other and return to being strong.

Edited 7 hours ago7 hr by Amphibian220