Spouseofgamer

My husband games pretty much from the time he gets home from work to the time he either passes out on the couch or until I come out and pretty much beg him to go to bed(roughly 10-16hrs). He doesn’t see the problem and gets angry with me when I ask him to come to bed and says, “I’m not tired I can function with no sleep.” He can’t. He’s mean. He’s insulting. And he’s driving my kids away from him. He doesn’t see the problem but the man he is when he doesn’t sleep is not a nice person. When he submits to sleeping rather than gaming he’s fun to be around and is the guy I married. I love him but I’m not sure how much more of this I can take. I told him I need his help around the house and that I can’t do this alone and that I want him to spend time with me but that he says is my problem and often times will agree to help me with things only to either be sleeping when I want to do them during the day or intentionally tries to make me mad by insulting me and my kids until he can return to his gaming. I really miss my funny goofy affectionate husband but I’m losing hope that I can bring him back. Any suggestion would be great. I’m frustrated and saddened by being told I’m the problem instead of him realizing he’s the one causing the stress by always gaming. I have never been opposed to him playing them all I had asked is that we found some middle ground that made us both happy. It’s a constant fight when I mention it to him…