These aren't only friends. These are co-addicts. And they are tough to shake. We have a limited capacity to how many friendships we can have, and a more limited capacity for best friends. This is simply because continuing to cultivate the relationship takes time. Good friends don't threaten you for not doing what they want you to do. This is abusive and manipulative behavior.
Gamer friends aren't really unique. The only thing that ties most of you together is the video game. Take that away, and what's left? Not much.
Friendships are tough to lose out on. It's especially hard because in the wake of COVID, it's especially hard to get out in the real world and make those real connections that matter.
Ask your friends for time on a Zoom call instead time on video games. You'll quickly find out who your real friends are.