Thank your for asking Havey,
To be honest, I am still seeking my own calling. But one thing for sure, playing game is just one of escaping way numbing our mind, being super selfish for our children (if we have young kids ), their future, because we can make a big difference in their life focusing our time to them for a better life, and develop our life as well. I have one kid. I know I have to commit to make sure my kid is well raised to know what is right and wrong, to choose good or bad. I have to be a good father through being a better parent because kid can not change their parent. We can change ourselves and then , we will find a way to influence other around us.
Gaming addiction really numbed my mind not to care about building my family( ended up in divorce ) , did not listen to no one to have a great family (Regret of course ), depression got me with over weight, I did change myself ,waking up early and run for a whole year every single day, lost like 50 lbs :),
My advice for someone on find their purpose/mission /work calling is to know your self by asking questions why we want to play the game. Accept that we are game addicts after doing the test in this website evaluation. (WE HAVE TO ADMIT WE HAVE A PROBLEM AND ACCEPT IT). That is the most important step to find the hint of our purpose ( I believe it from Cam ) .Do not be a mind slave to ourself in chain because we are not free at all. What do we really want for our life? I ask myself that what I want for real?
Thank you for asking question , I was thinking there will be no-one paying attention (Negative thoughts) to my post :),
One thing I know that I do not know the answer yet, I am still a searcher ,a seeker for liberation and freedom.
Thank you for reading 🙂
Hope for the best on this great journey together,
Sincerely
Tha